The relationship between a man and a woman is a complicated one, no matter what some people say. There are plenty of “peacocks” who claim that they know everything about the relationship between a man and a woman, who think that they’ve managed to solve the mystery of a perfect relationship and who actually have dozens of failed relationships in their history. No matter what these people say, one thing is certain: women are complicated and men don’t fully understand them. So, if you are a man looking for love and you really have no idea about what a woman is looking for in a man she would like to go out with, check out the list below. I think that you’ll learn a lot of useful tips and tricks!
1.Excellent grooming- always dress well. It really doesn’t matter where you are! Groom yourself, wear nice clothes and use a nice perfume. There is nothing more attractive for a woman than a man who smells nice.
- Good physique. You don’t have to be Hercules to attract a lovely lady but try to stay healthy. Yes, appearance does matter!
- Mind your behavior. Learn to believe in yourself and in your decisions. This might be hard sometimes but you’ll see that if you are determined, you will succeed. A behavior that shows you are determined and that you trust yourself will attract a beautiful lady.
- Charming personality. Work on your personality. Your body language will help you more than you can imagine, so learn some tips and tricks if you think that you don’t have the right skills! You don’t have to be perfect! You only need to learn how to be a gentleman.
- Work hard for a good career. Let’s face it! We live in a world in which everything is extremely expensive and we simply can’t pretend that money doesn’t matter. Yes, money does matter!! Of course, a good job that brings you a decent salary will help you be more successful in attracting the ladies. However, make sure that you know how to make the difference in a woman who only wants your money and a woman who appreciates your hard work and your success.
- A man who knows how to maintain a conversation. A quality woman will be searching for a man who makes thing easy when it comes to conversations. This is a trait that all women will tell you it’s important. Learn and train for conversation skills if you think that you are not good at initiating and then maintaining a good conversation. If you show genuine interest in a woman, you can be sure of the fact that she will show interest in you. It’s a win-win situation that can bring you more than you can imagine.
- Make her feel good in her own skin. If you learn how to make a woman feel at east when around you, you’ve half won her already! Learn how to treat the woman who is in front of you, make some nice compliments, indulge in a nice conversation and make her feel that you are excited about talking to her.
These are, generally speaking, what most women look for in a man when they decide to go out with him. Of course, every women is unique and while one women will search for a shy guy, other women will feel attracted by alpha males. As long as you treat her nicely, learn how to make a nice conversation, feel comfortable in her presence and make her feel comfortable in your presence, you will surely obtain what you want.
Of course that every woman is unique and what works in one case is not going to work in another case. However, it is important to make sure of the fact that you generally present yourself nicely, that your personality is a pleasant, warm one and that you are a good conversation companion. I know that you might not have all the necessary skills for this but if you persevere and practice your skills, then everything will be just fine. If you really like a woman, then go for it! Ask her out! Offer her a drink! Do whatever it takes to grab her attention and once you do this, make sure that you keep her entertained.
If you have tried a few things that are not on the list but these already proved to be efficient, then you should continue doing them. Do whatever helps you get close to a woman that you really like, a woman who really attracts your attention. Once you attract her attention, time will tell whether or not you are meant for each other. Now, your main goal is to get the conversation started.